Treat BPD with evidence-based psychotherapy (DBT, MBT, Schema, TFP) as the foundation. Use safety planning and short-term hospitalization for crises. Medications may treat specific symptoms but do not cure BPD. Peer support, family education, and clinicians trained in personality disorders improve outcomes.
Overview
Borderline personality disorder (BPD) is a treatable mental health condition. Treatment focuses on building skills for emotion regulation, reducing self-harm and improving relationships. Psychotherapy is the foundation of care; medication and brief hospitalization are used as adjuncts when needed.
Psychotherapy: the treatment of choice
Psychotherapies with the strongest evidence include Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), Mentalization-Based Treatment (MBT), Schema Therapy, and Transference-Focused Psychotherapy (TFP). DBT, developed by Marsha Linehan, has the largest evidence base for reducing self-harm and improving emotion regulation. These therapies teach skills for distress tolerance, emotional awareness, interpersonal effectiveness, and cognitive restructuring.
Therapy is usually structured and time-limited or long-term depending on need. Many people benefit from a combination of individual therapy and skills groups. Clinicians experienced in personality disorder treatment produce better outcomes, so referral to trained providers matters.
Safety planning and hospitalization
Clinicians work with patients to create safety plans that outline warning signs, coping strategies, and crisis contacts. Hospitalization is used when a person faces imminent risk of harm or needs short-term stabilization. Inpatient stays are typically brief and focused on safety, not long-term symptom change.
Medication: symptom relief, not a cure
No medication is approved specifically for BPD. Medications may reduce co-occurring symptoms such as depression, anxiety, impulsivity, or psychotic-like symptoms. Selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRIs), mood stabilizers, and short-term antipsychotics are sometimes prescribed to target specific problems. Medication works best when combined with psychotherapy and careful monitoring.
Self-help, peer support, and family involvement
Peer support groups, family education, and skills-focused community programs help people practice new coping strategies and expand social supports. Family therapy or psychoeducation improves communication and reduces crisis escalation. Digital tools and skills-workbooks can supplement therapy but do not replace professional treatment.
Practical points for patients and clinicians
- Treatment plans should set clear boundaries and expectations while maintaining empathic support.
- Progress can be gradual; many people see meaningful improvements in months to years.
- Address co-occurring disorders (substance use, mood disorders) alongside BPD.
- Seek clinicians trained in evidence-based therapies for personality disorders.